The stranger had just barely pulled into what is most commonly known as; Cumby’s. An all you could ever want in your Iced Coffee and public bathroom, little chain of conviences store filled with the occassional english speaking customer service employees. These little calls from a slice of senior living came more often than snowfall on a sunken in New Hampshire roof.
Senior to stranger: Can you hear me? Shut up, Harold. No, I don’t hear her. The phone rang but I can’t hear anything!
the Stranger: Is that you again playing with the phone? Are you alright? We’ve been trying to call you. What is that noise in the background? I hear screaming and a strange voice… Have you fallen? Is he there with you? For Christ sake what is going on?
Senior Missing in Action: Harold, I said, shut up! No, I’m not alright. I keep calling her but she isn’t picking up! I can’t be late again for the doctors!
Strange to be a Stranger: I’m calling EMS! Is anyone with you? Are you having a spell. Hang up the phone for fuck sake so I can call you back!
the Stranger had so often begged of the Seniors going through a second childhood; please just let me know where you are going and please just answer the phone when I call. The typical response? ‘Well, you don’t always ask us to call back.’ Four phones and no one is home. Do not. I repeat. Do not believe for a second that aging parents are capable of using common sense when it comes to gadgets and phones and near misses with spells, falls, incidents, miscues and/or poorly designed ways to communicate. Their phones maybe tech savvy but the owners aren’t!
I JUST CALLED TO SAY, WHERE ARE YOU-
No, new medications to celebrate
No, Xanax to give away
No, first Ipad to miscommunicate
No, fancy apps to improve upon your constantly being late
In fact, sometimes you forget the year, day and date
No, April Fools
No, AARP simpleton phone
No, I’ve fallen and can’t get up during a full moon
But what this is is something brand new made up of these four words I must say to you-
I just called to say, pick up the phone!
I just called to say, I don’t if you have GPS
I just called to say, pick up the phone
And, I mean it from the bottom of my heart
No, summer’s vacation where Verizon doesn’t go
No, devasatating dropped call without at least a first hello
No, doctor’s visit missed within the month of bad spells
No what a pretty tune to download
No bullshit lack of communication shipped over the airwaves by the boatload
No not even time to check the weather channel before you go
No on our way to church
No where does the time go
No giving thanks by e-card
But what it is something even senior parents can do: to fill my heart like no other words can do- ‘the phone is turned on!’
Now there is something new